Making it work

My friend Brandi has recently sent me a link to a website that I am actually finding interesting and definitely helpful. It's called marriagebuilders.com and it's not a bad idea for everyone, whether single or married, to check it out. I am finding out that while I have several flaws that are negatively affecting my relationship with Ja, I am not the only one, and there are ways to change my flaws into positive aspects of our relationship. It's a very thorough website, so I have only made a minor dent into all that it has to offer, but I already feel like I have some things to work on. I know I demand a lot out of Ja, but demands are the not the way to make someone want to do something. SO, it's things like this that anyone can learn from to make their lives more pleasant, as well as those that they interact with. I am going to try to read more every day and work on applying it to my relationship... wish me luck! It will be easier said than done, but I feel it's a necessary challenge. -em